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Amara the lesbian
Godwin Harrison
Bola Yahaya
Raldie Young
Ola Hassim
Victor Emmanuel
Fejiro Faeyfaeyy Adjerhore
Events Past

Queercity Podcast’s Fourth Season is here

Olaide Kayode Timileyin | 1:11pm

Since the inception of the Queercity podcast in 2018, we have steadily grown, from a bathroom midnight recorded one, to that over 50 episodes published on all major podcasting platforms across the universe. The podcast which has not just been an output of audio contents, but a place of community healing and resource. As a 2020 recipient of OUT IN TECH‘s five years website hosting program, we have sought to use that opportunity to create a free resource center which is our E-library, where we published books, comics, and an anthology by PRIDE TV.

In the last one year, we have partnered with quite a number of Queer and Ally led organizations on projects that fosters social acceptance and visibility of queer persons in Nigeria, and West Africa at large. Few of which includes Abuja Literary and Arts Festival 2020, IDAHOBIT (Breaking The Silence) with Bisi Alimi Foundation and The Future Africa Award’s 2020 Prize For Difference & Diversity.

In 2020, we ranked Number 18 in Naija Podhubs Top 50 Nigerian Podcasts with listeners from a total of 72 countries across the 7 continents of the world. In june 2020, we were able to provide queer people who were at the frontline of activities in the pandemic with bottles of Hand sanitizers, and we trained a total of 100 persons digital illustration, Graphics designing, and Podcasting.

As we rolling into 2021, We look forward to having Hotel Alabama the audio documentary being available freely on our website. The five episodes audio documentary is currently available for pay-for-play on EHTV network since July last year. Do check out our instagram and twitter for more info. Our magazine Qube is also undergoing rebranding and should also be available on prints for free if we are able to get enough financial support.

During the Pandemic, we envisaged The Shelle list , A list inspired by the indigenous Nigerian Street Queer Culture, “The Word “shelle” finds it root in one of the country’s spoken languages, Yoruba. Where the word “shelle” is coined out of  the phrase “se eleya”,  which means “to be mocked”. Over years, the Nigerian Queer community and the Africa Queer community have had to thrive under the shadows, with exceedingly amazing persons, and act. Surviving through the very grasps of being seen as a disgrace. the resilient power of the queer community” would be celebrated on this year’s Shelle list”.

With Spotify now available in Nigeria, one can now listen to Queercity podcast free of charge, simply by downloading the Spotify app. Available on android and iOS. The Fourth Season of the podcast which seeks to explore more silenced narrative of Queer Nigerians and West Africans, through Discussion, Interview and Storytelling would air it’s First episode by the 31’st of March, 2021 and would run into the month of pride. To Volunteer for our activities this year, contact us.

While we prepare ourselves for the big season, we implore you hit the subscribe button on your favourite podcast player, or you visit our website. To help us keep creating, you can use our donate button, or buy from our Merch store. For Sponsorship and Advertisements on this season, contact us.

Timeless Queer Defiance and it's consequences in Nigeria With Chude QueerCity

"Defiance comes with consequences and I am comfortable with it". He speaks about gay rights in the Nigerian churches, at conferences and anywhere. On this episode of the Queercity podcast, we would be experiencing what the reality of speaking for LGBT+ rights in Nigeria is for Nigeria's own Chude Jideonwo. Chude is known for his active amplification of minorities issues with his big show #WithChude, where he has also created space to help bring Queer persons' narratives safely to the mainstream media.  Chude speaks of how empathy could be an approach to fighting for the rights of sexual minorities, and to furtherly engaging violently oppressive systems. Behind the scenes packing and Bisi Alimi's appearance on “The Dawn” in 2004,  and the interview with Faraphina magazine Timeless Queer Defiance and its consequences in Nigeria with @chude Jideonwo Join the community by conversation via #Queercitypodcast #7yearsLaterSSMPA #LGBTNigerianLivesMatter #LGBTpodcast #Queerlivesmatter  Credit Executive Producer: Queercity Media and Productions @Queercitymediaandproductions  Hosted and Produced by: Olaide Kayode Timileyin(QueerNerd) @OKTIMILEYIN  Guest: Chude Jideonwo Website: Upcoming event: — Send in a voice message:
  1. Timeless Queer Defiance and it's consequences in Nigeria With Chude
  2. Nigeria's Road To LGBTI+ Decriminalization with Azeenarh Mohammed
  3. Who killed 19 years old John in Lagos ?
  4. Getting Justice for Cameroonian Transwomen Shakira and Patricia amidst death threats with Hamlet.
  5. HIV stigmatization amongst Nigerian Gay men with Raldie Young

The Nigeria Prize for Difference and Diversity announces judges and advisory board

The Nigeria prize for Difference and Diversity, endowed by the co-founder of RED | For Africa and founder of human flourishing company, Joy, Inc. Chude Jideonwo announces its judges and global advisory council as nominations for the prize continue.
Culled from diverse walks of life, the panel of judges is made up of some of the most distinctly decorated Nigerians from their individual fields. From actors Nse Ikpe-Etim and Beverly Naya, to decorated journalists Kiki Mordi, Harry Itie and CNN African Voices’ Arit Okpo. The extensive list of judges with their profiles is on ​ where one can also nominate the person they deem deserve the prize.
The mission of the prize, as stated by Chude Jideonwo, is “to open up the voices, hearts and spirits of young people across Nigeria, for them to embrace their true identities and accept their uniqueness without feeling suppressed, oppressed or misunderstood.”
Speaking about his inspiration for the prize, Chude Jideonwo said, “I like the idea of being an extremist for love and acceptance. It calls to something deep within my spirit. Because it is not homophobia or transphobia alone that breaks my heart—it’s inequality and oppression with regard to gender, to race, to religion; any part of the arena of human existence where being a minority or being different puts one automatically at risk,” he also added that, “The Nigeria Prize for Difference and Diversity, is me literally putting my money where my mouth is by endowing the prize for its first year. The prize will find and support young people across Nigeria who are creating safe spaces for and giving voice to people who are different in seven key areas: gender, sexuality, faith and spirituality, mental and emotional health, art, special needs, and human rights.”
In order to achieve its objectives, the prize category is being gently guided by the wisdom and experience of a global advisory board of respectable professionals from diverse fields. Among them is renowned pianist Cobhams Asuquo, human rights activist Olumide Makanjuola, vocal mental health professional and advocate Dr Zainab Imam, writer and artist Lisa Teasley, author and historian Noah Tsika, CEO of All On Wiebe Boer, and writer and public health expert Ike Anya, among others.
Nominations are currently being collated on ​ and will close on the 17th, August 2020.

Past Press release PRIDE

Press Release – GLOW UP PRIDE 1.0

An actual pride event in Nigeria would have been thought impossible, few years ago, after a tweep mentioned it has a possibility, the Nigerian LGBT community had an uproar and a division, some folx believed it’s a suicidal mission, others felt we can. Suggestions to create a balance like, wearing a mask to protect people’s identity were made. Pride month across the universe is a month that is all about the gays, lesbians and every other identity and expression in the LGBT community. Parades that are usually had in every geographical locations of the world, where being queer is not criminalized are cancelled this year, and thanks to the corona virus, which created the need for new exploration of new ideas.

Glow Up pride 2020 was one of the mediums we sought to explore, a virtual pride. At the beginning of the pandemic, human contacts were the first to be avoided, that is ; self isolation, which caused every form of gathering to be cancelled, every form of basic life interactions were taken digital, and companies like Zoom, Facebook, HouseParty, etc created platforms for people to meet in large numbers virtually, thereby no exposing anyone to the virus. By April we started planning for one of such meetings, since the SSMPA is against physical gathering, we could take our meetings somewhere new, “the Virtual earth”. The two hours event was held on zoom, and we had 9 awesome performances , starting off with Borax, and ending with Gyre. Videos are on our IGTV


This is why I am endowing a N1 million prize for difference and diversity in Nigeria

by Chude Jideonwo

Last year, I wrote a piece on CNN during Pride Month—a month set aside to celebrate sexual and
gender diversity globally—to spotlight the progress Africa is making overall (though not fast
enough) on the matter of LGBTQ rights. It was not the first piece I had written on the matter. I
consider it the number-one civil rights issue of our time. But yet again, there was backlash, even
from people I like and respect. Comments on my Instagram page, especially from people of my
faith, verged on heartbreak: How can you, Chude, say this kind of thing?
I could sense the pained conflict: People want to like and respect you—and they want it to be
uncomplicated. They don’t want to encounter parts of you they don’t agree with. They don’t want to
confront the idea that they respect someone who has diverging views on such an important matter.
Others who already knew where I stand wanted silence. Why can’t you just support it quietly, someone
asked. Why must you continue to talk about it, even at risk of attack? Apparently, it would be easier for
them to forget that I have an opinion (a worldview, actually) on this matter if I could just stake my
claim and move on. They want it to be a passing fancy, whispered only. Because on this matter,
many people I like and who like me, disagree fiercely.
The reason for this is that we are looking from very different perspectives. I see diverse sexualities
and genders as inevitable consequence of evolution; simply a matter of difference. They see the
same as perverted. And for those who mix this distaste with religion, it is an affront on God’s law. I
might as well be defending rape, or bestiality, or child marriage. It’s beyond the pale.
The more charitable of these allow themselves the dissonance of liking me even though I support
something they detest, by reassuring themselves: it’s the influence of the West. It’s because of all those books
he has been reading. As Emperor Festus said to Apostle Paul in the Christian Bible: “You are out of
your mind, Paul! Too much learning has made you mad.”
How can I be a Pentecostal Christian who goes to church and speaks in tongues—something
actually mocked by most of my liberal tribe—and at the same time be a homosexual-supporting,
transgender-affirming, pro-choice person? How does it even make sense? What are they to do with
I empathise.
But that doesn’t mean I understand homophobia or transphobia. I can understand not liking
something, not wanting to participate in it. But I cannot understand harming people for doing things
you don’t like.
People, especially cosmopolitan Christians, often say: I hate the sin, not the sinner. But that confuses me
even more. How else could you hate someone worse than denying their human rights, supporting
laws that prescribe their torture and death, refusing to employ them, or even worse—as I have heard

some people do—cheer when they are killed by angry mobs? How much more can it be possible to
hate a person than for a father to disown his child? Is it not enough to disagree, even to disapprove?
Make no mistake: I do not consider homosexuality to be a sin—sin being a separation from God. It
is a demonstration of diversity on par with other beautiful things in the world: marriage, childbirth,
heterosexual sex, gardening, prayer, worship, creation, love, relationship. I believe that diversity is
the very force of life. Nature evolves into further complexity, diversity, difference. Thus the wonders
of biodiversity, cosmopolitan cities, even empires—the more diverse, the more thriving.
But even if I did consider it perverted—which it bears repeating, I do not—I would still be confused
by the hate; the insistence on treating people as other, not because they hurt anyone, but because
they exist differently.
A lot of people don’t agree that women should be in politics, join the army, use birth control, or
have divorces. Would we allow such women be hurt by those people just because they disagree with
the things they do—even if these are lifestyle choices?
It is not necessary to convince people that homosexuality is right or natural, for this lesson to shine
through. Why? Because we don’t need to agree with people in order to respect them, embrace them,
leave them be, and love them.
Love is at the core of my faith. The Christian idea of love doesn’t wait for people to become what
you want them to be before you love them. It’s about loving them as they are. And there is no love
without action. To love a person is to do loving things to the person—to protect them, to engage
them, to embrace them (even if you don’t embrace what you don’t agree with), to validate them as
humans, first and foremost.
“It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres,” the Christian Bible says in 1
Corinthians 13:7-8. “Love never fails.”
Duty fails. Miracles fail. Professionalism fails. Wealth fails. Care fails.
But love? Love never fails.
Using the instruments of oppression, punishment, legal intimidation, force: how can that be love? Can
we agree that prescribing murder, disowning a child, or firing a person for their sexual or gender
identity cannot be love?
This is not just about LGBTQ rights; this is also about all future rights given to people who do no
harm to society—wherever biological and social evolution will take us, whatever mutations of the
human condition will follow. New rights and new identities will continue to come up as they have
throughout history—for women, for Muslims, for Christians, for children, for Black people, and
more. I don’t need to know what rights will be demanded or to agree with those rights before I
embrace, accept and love the people as they are.

This conversation about love—and with it acceptance and justice—matters. The consideration of
love as the fundamental ethos of a society that wishes to thrive and ensure the greatest well-being
for the greatest many, is as urgent as it has always been. If we all had to wait for people to
understand us before they loved us, what kind of world would we have? Without people ready to
suspend judgment and empathize with things they cannot understand and cannot prove, who would
we be?
We ask people to live honestly and live in their truths, and yet we tell them to shut up and stay
hidden, because we dislike their truths.
We say I don’t have a problem with them. But how can you have no problem with a person’s life and yet
want that person to hide that life, to never speak of it, to never “flaunt” it in public? Why is it so
important to take away their power and their voice? And what kind of person does that make you, if
you must shut down the spirit of a person you disagree with?
Love and acceptance cannot really be love and acceptance until we see what they do when they
encounter something they don’t like. That is love’s truest test. And love and acceptance are why I
can’t just let this matter be.
My heart breaks with each hurtful word, each harmful action, each attack, each oppressive response,
each demonstration of hate. There is so much avoidable pain and loss, caused by us on each other,
for no good reason. How can I not bear witness?
I remember at this point, Dr. Reverend Martin Luther King Jr.’s seminal Letter from Birmingham
Jail in 1963, to fellow ministers who asked him to be quiet, at least for a while.
To their defense of attacks on minorities based on the law, he answered: “We should never forget
that everything Adolf Hitler did in Germany was “legal” and everything the Hungarian freedom
fighters did in Hungary was “illegal.” It was “illegal” to aid and comfort a Jew in Hitler’s Germany.
Even so, I am sure that, had I lived in Germany at the time, I would have aided and comforted my
Jewish brothers. If today I lived in a Communist country where certain principles dear to the
Christian faith are suppressed, I would openly advocate disobeying that country’s …laws.”
To the members of his faith who stood by while other citizens were oppressed: “I must honestly
reiterate that I have been disappointed with the church. I do not say this as one of those negative
critics who can always find something wrong with the church. I say this as a minister of the gospel,
who loves the church; who was nurtured in its bosom; who has been sustained by its spiritual
blessings and who will remain true to it as long as the cord of life shall lengthen.”
And to those who called him extremist in his demand for equality, he pointed to Jesus: “But though
I was initially disappointed at being categorized as an extremist, as I continued to think about the
matter I gradually gained a measure of satisfaction from the label. Was not Jesus an extremist for
love: “Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for
them which despitefully use you, and persecute you.”

I like the idea of being an extremist for love and acceptance. It calls to something deep within my
spirit. Because it is not homophobia or transphobia alone that break my heart—it’s inequality and
oppression with regard to gender, to race, to religion; any part of the arena of human existence
where being a minority or being different puts one automatically at risk.
That is why, as an associate producer in 2003, when I was barely 18, I was proud to help put the first
openly gay person on a national TV interview in Nigeria, and to follow it up with a magazine cover.
That is why I am set to do the same with the first interview with an intersex woman on national TV.
That is why I stepped up to help tell the story of a woman alleging rape by a powerful Nigerian
pastor. That is why I have launched a faith platform that integrates as many voices as possible, from
atheists and agnostics, to people of the Bahai faith. That is why the stigma and discrimination that
often follows issues of mental and emotional health engage my attention.
“Here I stand,” the first Martin Luther declared 600 years ago, in front of the most powerful men of
his day. “I cannot do otherwise, so help me God.”
That is why today I am announcing the launch of The Nigeria Prize for Diversity and Difference,
and literally putting my money where my mouth is by endowing the prize for its first year. The prize
will find and support young people across Nigeria who are creating safe spaces for and giving voice
to people who are different in seven key areas: gender, sexuality, faith and spirituality, mental and
emotional health, art, special needs, and human rights.
Applications open today on, and the criteria for the prize are also on the site. I
am especially looking for those who work in states and communities where it is most dangerous,
even fatal, to be different; people and organisations who may not know how to navigate funding,
spotlights or networks. I want to help them, in my personal capacity—using my voice, brand,
networks, and talents—in their quest to make us more fully human.
There is a corollary to this. By sticking my neck out and planting my flag firmly, I hope to invite
conversation from people who don’t understand but want to understand; who are open to seeing
this from another angle—that of love and acceptance. I do not desire change in doctrine or
worldview, not even to convert or persuade on the rightness of this or that difference. Only the
humility to say, like Paul the Apostle who once persecuted Christians: I now see differently.
“Come, let us reason together.” Let’s help each other on a journey towards better understanding
those who are not like us, who don’t live like we do, who may never agree with us. Come, let us help
each other on a journey to becoming better, in and through love. And let that urgent journey
towards love and acceptance be powered by compassion for those who are queer, marginalized,
oppressed and attacked unfairly: the stones the builders rejected, that are nonetheless crucial for
building the fabric of a society that can fully actualize itself.
There was a time when my default was white-hot rage at prejudice, as I refused to explain my stand
or to justify where I stand, for fear of playing defense on a matter I consider righteous; my only
desire to create the conditions that make prejudice unfashionable. But that desire has ripened into
something more supple.

I Corinthians 13:11-13: “When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as
a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but
then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known. And now
abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.”
To respond with compassion and empathy is not to be on the defensive, I have now learnt. It is to
choose another kind of offensive.
Of course, I bear no illusions. Habits die hard, so resistance and abuse will yet come in response to
this. I wish it wouldn’t; but where it does come, it will be welcomed. This is a prize about difference
and diversity, yes, but it is also a prize about defiance.
You see, when I decided to do this prize and to write this piece in February, scheduled for Pride
Month, I couldn’t have known that—forced into global reflection by COVID-19—there would be a
global reckoning of the track records of those who did nothing or something while the voices of
minorities were being silenced in the workplace, in government and by the forces of the state –

BlackLivesMatter, #MeToo, #WeAreTired. That a global protest for equality and safety would be

the backdrop of this announcement.
But I could not have been surprised.
Here is the rub: Nigeria will change, whether we like it or not. That is the inevitable nature of
society. In 50 years, many of these rights I fight for will be enshrined because the moral arc of the
universe bends only one way: towards justice. And when that time comes, our children will wonder
if we had lost our minds when we insisted on this exclusion and oppression—the way many today
wonder at history’s legacy of slavery, child marriage, and the suppression of voting rights for
When that future comes for Nigeria, the records need show that some people stood up and stood in
the gap. So that our children will fight their own battles secure in the knowledge that this race of
justice is a relay across generations; that they are not alone in the fight for the fruits of
love—acceptance, empathy, compassion, temperance.
Nigerians and Africans cannot be fighting for Black lives—which are a minority in the West and the
East—while oppressing their own minorities here at home, and resisting the urgency of diversity.
Black lives matter. Gay lives matter. Trans lives matter. Women’s lives matter. Atheist lives matter.
Agnostic lives matter. Autistic lives matter. Neuro-divergent lives matter.
This is the same cosmic battle humanity has been having for all of time. And Life is asking us the
very same question it has asked those before us, and will continue, for all of time, to ask those after

Will we be extremists for hate or for love?
I choose, enthusiastically, to be an extremist for love.
*Jideonwo is host of the TV and radio network #WithChude, which is creating safe spaces for conversations about
mental, emotional and spiritual health across Africa. He is also co-founder of human flourishing company, Joy inc.

Events Past

Bodies Around Olumo

The first of it’s kind; a queer youths’ themed open mic, in the city of Abeokuta, and in the country as a whole. The splendid event started a little bit later than scheduled, as guests seemed to arrive late due to commuting challenges (e.g. poor road network and traffic). Nevertheless, the evening started with a red carpet, registration process, body art station, resources’ materials stop and the main event of the night.

We started with a welcome address by O.K. Timileyin and was hosted by Doctor Gentle where different sorts of performances started, with act of poetry, singing, story telling, Yoruba rhythms, cultural queer troop dance and drag.

Amidst the performance was a panel themed “LGBT YOUTHS: THE FUTURE OF ACTIVISM” hosted by QueerNerd. On this panel, we had Ayobami Kehinde, Obatolu Atanda and Mx Yosola, which was a very educative panel ending in questions and answers to wrap it up. The event which was attended by +50 people, ended with a twelve basket of pastries and drinks as an after-social.

Thereafter, we all retired to our hotel, where we had our after party. We had 25 party goers that night, which was lodged in numerous rooms of the 4 stars hotel we were in. The after party helped build a bond amongst everyone and it ignited various ideas and more questions raised in relation tp to the progress of the Nigerian LGBT movement. This discussion spilled over into the dawn of the following day, but we managed to rest our heads before departure, which occurred exactly 11:00 am on 15th of December, 2019.